There are many different strategies on how to make a girl orgasm. However, I found one sure fire step by step process that works every time. I stopped wasting my time trying everything else. If you do this you will never fail to get her off.
The easiest way to make a girl orgasm is to slow down, take your time, and create tension. You need to take your time building a fire within the girl and she’ll start becoming more and more aroused.
Girls absolutely hate being touched sexually without first being warmed up a bit. Put in your time kissing and softly caressing her.
A slow approach works best because the girl begins to imagine what is to come next. A woman’s thoughts are powerful things. Once her imagination gets going, she’ll stay in her own fantasy land, and your work in reality will be much easier.
If you are trying to make a girl orgasm by fingering her, the best thing to do is start by alternating soft caresses and hard grabs of her inner thigh. Never go directly for the vagina. Slowly inch your way towards the main goal.
Play with her underwear and stroke her vagina only momentarily before returning your attention to other areas. By the time you’re getting ready to penetrate her, she’ll be begging you for it.
The same rules apply for going down on a girl. Start by licking her inner thigh (not like a dog) sexually. Don’t go immediately for clitoris because this is the payoff area. Start by tonguing her vagina and creeping closer and closer to the clitoris.
By this point she’ll probably start pushing her pelvis into your face. She wants you go after the clitoris. Give it a little bit of time though. You really want to build it up.
Now its time to start softly stroking her clitoris with your tongue. Go slow in the beginning. As she gets more and more in to it, and more and more wet, then you can begin to work faster with your tongue. Keep pressure on the clitoris and work in an up/down fashion. You can swirl occasionally, but the up/down technique is the best.
The key to making a girl orgasm is to always remain calm and work slowly. Sexual tension is created by slow, deliberate, movements. If you rush it, the girls mind has no time to imagine the pleasure awaiting her. You will have blown it before you even got started.
Here’s a resource that will show you how to be the man in the bedroom and become the best lover possible. It’s a great resource and I highly recommend it: Lick by Lick by Michael Webb.